Updated: Thursday, April 25, 2019 9:33:13 PM
I'm hoping to connect this way with someone real that I like, a woman who shares my interests, and with whom the chemistry is right (without having to deal with jive, nonsense, or B.S. The primary men seeking women dating links seem to generate only bogus replies; I am not looking for bogus, I'm not looking for trashy, I'm not trying to get laid, per se. So please don't send me solicitations, false leads, (you or anyone else), or assurances that, although you are real, I have to sign up at another to talk to you. You will be wasting your time, and mine, no matter what you have to offer. Although I'm an older man, I am predominately in good condition, slender, broad-shouldered, muscular, medium height, with very long brown hair and chiselled features. I have been a vegetarian since I was faithful, because that is the kind of man I am. I don't hit women either; I have never cheated on, , anyone. I love Country music, as well as classical and other types. I was raised on the Grand Opry, Methodist hymns, and symphonic music. I have been writing Country songs for a long time, but have only gotten serious about singing and songwriting in the last several years. I can't deal with a standard guitar any more, having messed up my hand, but I am learning lapsteel and play some keyboard, and I am gradually learning the and outs of recording. I've developed an invisible disability that keeps me out of the job market, but I am hopeful I may be able to generate some income with my songs, being a prolific writer. I would like to become friends with a lady who likes Country music, who loves God, and who is not into promiscuity, someone who doesn't care that I have only years or so left on the odometer, a woman who loves , and who can respect a faithful man who doesn't hit women. She should be significantly younger than me (my current wife is years younger and I am used to the company of younger, women, being arguably more than most of my contemporaries). It would help if she enjoys ambitious hiking, hunting, mushroom picking, gardening (I am basiy a farmer by nature, and am good at it), country roads, and exploring interesting places. I'm also an empath; clairvoyance and intuitiveness run in my family. I like to go walking in storms, and am at my best in hot weather. I am politiy progressive, radical even, and am a hardcore environmentalist, but I am also disgusted by people who turn their backs when our freedoms are taken away, while the rich keep getting richer and most of us poorer. I am a committed but do not spend much time in . So yeah, I live an hour or two away from your area. I am posting in Sacramento because I think I might meet a like-minded person more easily there, and also because I am not in a position to go jumping into the sack with someone. Getting to really know another person is a long process, and is a good thing; distance can help. I like writing back and forth, too. It is important that, if we are ever to be more than just friends, there be really good chemistry present; if I try to involve myself with someone who is not attractive to me, the resuts will be disastrous. People can get hurt, and I speak from long experience. I guess I would be most pleased if you might want to sing with me, or accompany me on whatever instrument you may play. My wife refused when I asked her, and I can't say it didn't hurt. But if you're not musical that's perfectly fine, as long as you take me seriously and we get along. Well, I expect this will go nowhere. But if by chance any of this resonates with you, there is a lot of life left in me, and maybe we should start talking. I have been far less than I can be for a long, long time, and I have often wondered what it would be like with a woman of real integrity, who is not afraid to dream and who knows the meaning of unconditional love, someone who is actually interested in what I am doing and understands the creative process. Aw c'mon! It can't hurt to write! I know you're out there somewhere, lurking (I can feel it!). I seeking real sex.